It's Ok if all is not Ok

Have you ever been bullied?

Everyone has; But people react to it differently.

I don't know about you but I have been bullied when being adult.

I might have been targeted younger but I don't think I cared. You end up getting along with most people.
I know that this is a strong word - but let's not call "pushing": "teasing"; "pressure": "challenge" or "accusing": "oups".

But as an adult, being able to notice the bad intention, and the ruthlessness can be damaging.

I like saying "I don't care if you put your nose in my business" or just don't care about you working hard to put me on my knees.

However, the bullies that not leave you alone are the one that can push you and affect you daily. Whether in an intimate relationship or at work. When it's almost every day.

However, in some cases you can find yourself on non-ending pressures and sometimes you have to deal with people that are insecure or bored or sad in their life that will manage to make you miserable.

Bullies are good, they manage to have sponsors and people agreeing with them that comfort them with their actions.

You can ask yourself, from where are they able to have the energy on so much hate. But seriously, is it that important?!

From another side, I am surrounded by strong people, and I thank them, they are able to not be emotionally involved and gives this instinct step back. They are a Rock. You know not like in the movie "Legend d autumn" the rock you crush on but the rock that can shelter you from the wind of bullies.

Yep you are reading it right, Bullies are like wind, they end up disappearing.

A friend told me, why you are given them a chance to reach you, and the fact is, I am tired.

And it's ok to be tired and not be able to fight back for a while.
I stopped.

What we should not forget is when they go, you need to be remain stable as the rock you were.

I don't have a plan now for others, what worst will happen? Be kicked from somewhere or having a small group of people bunching air, be fired, have some people using time and energy talking on what they think I said or did .

But I do have a plan for me.

One of the most courageous woman lead I had told me once "At a moment you see that you can't take it, don’t change your life. Take vacations"

So yes the first plan for myself is first to rest. Take the chance to center my thoughts and be surrounded by the people of my heart and meet new balanced people. Holidays. I didn't had real ones since... I don't know ... ages.

Then when back, Have s*** done!

Zora