When you talk about it - You embrace it

Either at work or in your personal life, talking makes you want to embrace what you are saying. 

Many times people complain about the obligation to attend meetings.  When in fact the aim is to make them assist and participate in order to have them more involved and productive to achieve their company’s goals.

It's almost the same for the personal life.
When you are not feeling ok or when you are trying to isolate, your relatives and beloved ones try to get you out to meet and discuss with others. To impregnate yourself with new ideas and getting you engaging yourself with things you maybe always wanted to do and be. Because if it’s only you facing your reflection, you can understand your own excuses and put on hold your own dreams.

Of course it depends on who are those others people. Because it's good to meet with others … not the negative people ... but those who are inspiring and having positive impacts.

In the real world (meaning the personal and not work life), People are not govern by rules processes or the necessity to behave and so you should know who you should be with.

We all got that friend or read that article saying that we should surround ourselves with positive thoughts or have plans for our lives or think well to not make any mistakes... but until now I know no-one that didn't fall for himself before standing for his wills. This is ok. For me being human is being able to say.: oh wow now I am getting what they tried to teach me!

I had a close friend that told me once that there are no patterns in life and that there are no designed road to follow.. Every single life must be different.... and now I get it. Because at the time, I was busy struggling on what I thought my life should be and I just heard him without really guetting it.

What I am trying to say is that what makes us go thought years of work is getting involved and chasing numbers or chasing promotions, discussing the goals, etc.
For life it's quite different as you should be setting your own rules, needs, and the path you want your life to be. Also making time for it.

Either if it’s a six-pack, a trip around the world or extra studies, to get engaged for yourself you should engage in front of others. And by others I mean the close ones and if you can’t rely on the actual ones, then you can use coaches or mentors to encourage your dreams.

Good Luck to us.

 “If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.”― Albert Einstein

ZoRa